MEET AJ, LCmhca:
(he/they)
If you're the strange of the strange, othered by the others, or a freak among freaks, welcome.
Currently accepting new clients. In process to accept insurance in the coming weeks.
I am a multiply marginalized therapist that believes the human relationship comes before the clinical relationship and is the foundation for healing work. I strongly value autonomy, transparency, and consent in therapy, and see the therapeutic relationship as a consultation between two experts, where you are the expert on yourself and your experience. I strive to create a therapeutic environment that is decolonial, anti-racist, and anti-carceral. This includes placing accurate blame on the violent capitalist systems around us instead of turning that blame inward or toward loved ones, as well as destigmatizing and honoring the role of dissociation in our survival. How can the healing done through therapy mobilize us to undermine those systems and build a better world, instead of being just enough to get on with business as usual?
Special interest in:
Fat-positivity, asexuality and aromanticism, A-type neurodivergences (autistic, AuDHD, ADHD), nonbinary and transgender identities, competing/complex access needs and internalized ableism, polyamory/ENM/relationship anarchy, covid caution-affirming, and kink-affirming care.
Meet The pets!
Meet Sandy, Meri, and Pike (9)!
I have a 65lb pit mix named Pike (9 years old), and two cats named Meri (11) and Sandy (15). Pike is a quiet, cat-like dog that can't stand to cuddle and loves cauliflower, Meri is an anxious boy that functions as my partner's familiar, and Sandy is a grumpy old orange cat that barks and cuddles more than Pike does!
Favorite Media
I am currently watching and re-watching One Piece (no spoilers past episode 739 please!) and I keep up with Critical Role on a weekly basis. I'm also a big fan of Good Omens. For podcasts and substacks, check out Wonderful, Death Panel, and Ragen Chastain's Weight and Healthcare Newsletter.
Favorite Food
I love a sweet thai curry and a fresh roll. Baby kale is my favorite form of vegetable, and I often make myself teriyaki beef with kale at home. I love hazelnut with my chocolate, and appreciate a high quality home-made mac n' cheese with breadcrumbs.
What do you do in your free time?
In addition to being a therapist, I am also an illustrator. I am currently illustrating a children's book with my brother that I'm very excited about. I love fanart, fanfiction, and fandom in general, and have participated in many community-made artbooks over the years. I play in and GM regular TTRPG sessions with my friends, and stay connected to local mutual aid networks to support my community.
